36 Questions That Make Strangers Fall In Love (The LAB)

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We see if the '36 love questions' actually work! Follow us @mitchellmoffit & @whalewatchmeplz SUBSCRIBE for more: http://bit.ly/asapsci ALL 36 QUESTIONS: Set I 1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest? 2. Would you like to be famous? In what way? 3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why? 4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you? 5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else? 6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want? 7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die? 8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common. 9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful? 10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be? 11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible. 12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be? Set II 13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know? 14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it? 15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life? 16. What do you value most in a friendship? 17. What is your most treasured memory? 18. What is your most terrible memory? 19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why? 20. What does friendship mean to you? 21. What roles do love and affection play in your life? 22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items. 23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s? 24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother? Set III 25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling ... “ 26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ... “ 27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know. 28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met. 29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life. 30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself? 31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already. 32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about? 33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet? 34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why? 35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why? 36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen. Links to the study/full questions: http://psp.sagepub.com/content/23/4/363.full.pdf+html http://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/11/fashion/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html GET THE ASAPSCIENCE BOOK: http://asapscience.com/book/ Send us stuff! ASAPSCIENCE INC. P.O. Box 93 Toronto P, Toronto, ON, M5S2S6 Produced by: Gregory Brown, Mitchell Moffit, Rachel Salt, Anthony Morgan & Jessica Carroll Edited by: Sel Ghebrehiwot

Comments:
we aresupernovas
we aresupernovas 2017-Jan-16 20:03:36

so what's the follow up? its been about a year now!

kinggucci
kinggucci 2017-Jan-16 17:57:50

"I like you're face,you have a really nice face" 😂😂😂

Basma Tazi
Basma Tazi 2017-Jan-16 16:40:07

Are Cam and Emily still together?

Nellah Grace
Nellah Grace 2017-Jan-16 13:11:06

She seemed so nervous bless her.

Kelly Ding
Kelly Ding 2017-Jan-16 06:28:05

"I like your face"
Right on, well done bro

Harvey Wilson
Harvey Wilson 2017-Jan-16 02:21:45

Crystal combine profound regularly excuse doubt sake otherwise.

Jonah
Jonah 2017-Jan-16 02:16:38

I was like, too eager, mate, but then she kissed the heck out of him

Debbie Random
Debbie Random 2017-Jan-15 21:33:58

Next video:
How to persuade your crush to do this with you

QueenieMouse
QueenieMouse 2017-Jan-15 20:59:50

CRIIIINGE

Wolf
Wolf 2017-Jan-15 19:52:11

Cam and Emily have since been on two dates...


Their bodies were never found...

Ana Stewart Tamariz
Ana Stewart Tamariz 2017-Jan-15 10:44:47

I remember reading an article about this a couple years ago

luis carlos palomino forero
luis carlos palomino forero 2017-Jan-15 08:55:33

This story reaaaaally needs a follow up.

danniel lampa
danniel lampa 2017-Jan-15 08:46:58

I like to know her if she already had a sexual intercourse?

danniel lampa
danniel lampa 2017-Jan-15 08:44:15

what is the full name of this girl on facebook?

Rosemary Crafting
Rosemary Crafting 2017-Jan-15 07:07:28

WE NEED A FOLLOW UP

Cintia Stefany
Cintia Stefany 2017-Jan-15 03:35:59

am i the only one who saw that on the big bang theory?

kat tekla
kat tekla 2017-Jan-14 23:15:53

Okay regardless of them telling them what to expect that was really cute! And I hope they work out anyways cause I was grinning a lot

Cato
Cato 2017-Jan-14 23:05:04

OUR WHOLE UNIVERSE WAS IN A HOT DENSE STATE THEN NEARLY FOURTEEN BILLION YEARS AGO EXPENSION STARTED. WAIT. THE EARTH BEGAN TO COOL, THE AUTOTROPHS BEGAN TO DROOL, NEANDERTHALS DEVELOPED TOOLS, WE BUILT A WALL, WE BUILD THE PYRAMIDS!

MATH, SCIENCE HISTORY, UNRAVELING THE MYSTERY THAT ALL STARTED WITH THE BIG BANG!
BANG!

Katie Grace C.
Katie Grace C. 2017-Jan-14 21:56:26

See, I think this experiment works, especially nowadays, because people forget to get to know each other when they're in the dating process. The emphasis on technology and seeming disregard for actual conversation and human interaction kind of kills what used to be the best way to date - which is simply getting to know one another. I don't really believe that it's this specific combination of questions that makes people fall in love, I think it's the idea behind conversation and eye contact without constant attention given to devices that plays a key role.

I also agree with other people who have said that the two people should not know about the experiment beforehand. That really does mess with the results and the expectations of the test subjects. Who's to say that the people who created this video didn't specifically choose people who had a ton in common so that they would really like each other? Who knows.

I still really liked this video. I think it would be really interesting to see an actually, full-blown example of this experiment with all 36 questions and with neither test subject knowing what they were going to do.